Arranging child support without the drama

Discussing child matters is one of the most contentious issues in a divorce and also one of the causes of prolonged legal battles between estranged spouses long after the divorce has been finalized.

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Child support matters are particularly troublesome since they involve money. Failure to pay child support is a common and sad reality in an economically challenging time, made more tragic by the fact that many single parents often face financial crunches.

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Bitter arguments over child support and other matters fracture families all the more, particularly if the children become too involved in their parents’ conflict. Children might take sides in the debate, and be turned against one parent. While parents granted sole custody of a child should fight for their right to receive child support, they should always do so in a way that does not psychologically or emotionally stress out the children.

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 As much as possible, parents should cooperatively plan the details of child support during the divorce and achieve the balance amicably. Likewise, visiting and rights should be respected as much as possible. Studies show that former partners are more likely to keep up with child support if they are allowed to see their children.

 
Seeking legal counsel in any matter surrounding child support is important. Expert legal advice can help divorced parents seek the best solutions both for themselves and their children.  

Maria Rivera Ortiz, a divorce attorney based in Worcester Massachussetts, helps divorced parents settle legal matters surrounding child support and child custody. Visit her practice’s websitefor more information on family and divorce law.